Good things take time, and the more you savor them, the more you make out of it. When we decide to go for some action, we like it the way we like it, from steamy shower sex to foreplay dressed as characters we have the hots for from out fantasies. Whether you have the sheepish desire to follow or be the authoritarian one and command, foreplay is a necessity when it comes to having a good time. It helps prepare both the mind and body for the forthcoming sex. The physical purpose that foreplay sever is getting the vagina ready by lubricating it in the process. It is a primary reason why women need you to pay attention to their erogenous zones, to feel you breathea warm gust of air as you kiss her neck, be hugged, and touched lovingly so that they can have comfortable sex with their partners.

Men make it a session perfecting the exploration of female sexuality; it also means more time they can spend having sex. It feels good, but that’s just on the surface as there’s a lot more to foreplay than meets the eye.

Picture two different scenarios and then choose the one you like.

One where you go out, have a nice meal, enjoy some drinks, drive back home, get naked, have a quickie, and then lie naked on the bed.

And the other where you go out for a meal at a nice restaurant that has some dim lighting and soft music playing in the background, you order some aphrodisiacs that get you in the mood. Your partner starts some under the table teasing, and you finish your meal get in the cab, and can’t wait to reach home. You open the door, and the aphrodisiacs have kicked in; you start secreting pheromones that drive your partner crazy as he starts undressing you, longing for you. Now you are in your lingerie on the bed, he gives you a sexy body massage kissing you on your back and then proceeding with some tantalizing sex.

We all dream of the latter, while it is always a fantasy to have a quickie in an office or join the mile high club, this leaves the women frustrated afterward. While foreplay not just guarantees satisfaction for both the partners, it also increases the goodwill from your partner, which inturn gives you more sex.

Foreplay is usually the antecedent event to sex. But it doesn’t have to lead to intercourse if you don’t want it to. It can be fully satisfying for some and help them achieve orgasm or a stronger orgasm in most cases.

The physical response in your body that foreplay causes are also significant.  From more blood flow to the sexual organs resulting in the penis, clitoris, and labia to swell to lubricating the vagina making sex more pleasurable for both the partners.

So, live out your untamed desires, let your partner know how much you crave for them to make every session one that both of you remember until the next.